open letter from someone with bpd

Ironic though since it was my family putting me through hell for years that caused me to develop BPD. It lays out the facts while giving room for the Non in the person with BPD's life options. I wish my girlfriend had been able to do what you have done, she fought for me for a long time, but it just became to much for her. I am borderline, but also bipolar, which I take medication for. Privacy Click on the different category headings to find out more. It's sort of comforting that she said that, because it confirms that I probably finally have the right diagnosis. Try to deny it. Showing your love and support will make them more willing to see your point of view and help them understand your desire for healthy boundaries. Be anywhere but obsolete, which is what I would be if I wasn't a people pleaser. There are nine possible criteria for diagnosing BPD, but an individual only needs to . A, The mind is very complex. I am 26 years old, I live in Wichita, KS, and I live with my father because I cannot live alone. I am also a Type 1 Diabetic of 17 years. Click to enable/disable essential site cookies. All in all today I am successfull in all that I set my mind on to do. I think you are the first Norwegian to tell me about her BPD blog. We may avoid you, not answer calls, and decline invitations to be around you and other times, all we want to do is be around you. Click to enable/disable _gid - Google Analytics Cookie. You are a strong person for working so hard to heal yourself. Just let her know I sent you, and she'll be happy to point you in the right direction. It is a true fact that the Princess of Wales has reported a borderline personality disorder. My intention was to describe the difficulty while remaining brief. Best of luck! But what the BPD sees as abandonment, we see as self care (which ironically is one of the suggestions handed down in this open letter). I have to agree with DBTChick. It's bloody hard work to change your whole life and how you live it. Whatever. We can learn how to stop sabotaging our lives and circumstancesand we can learn to behave in ways that are less hurtful and frightening to you. I am so torn. I have beeen through 3 years of DBT therapy and figuring out who i am and how i came to have this horrible disorder. Debbie now teaches the DBT skills that helped change her life over at. You have said all the things I've always wanted to say to the people who are or who have been in my life. Live life to the fullest. You are free to opt out any time or opt in for other cookies to get a better experience. I am sorry that my borderline personality disorder (BPD) got in the way of our family and us. A certain song, sound, smell, or words can quickly fire off neurological connections that bring us back to a place where we didnt feel safe, and we might respond in the now with a similar reaction (think of military persons who fight in combat a simple backfiring of a car can send them into flashbacks. Dear *My Name*, I wanted to write you and tell you that I'm sorry I couldn't (or didn't) make it work with you. She loves her, she wants her to be happy, but to be verbally, emotionally and even sometimes physically abused, she can't be always 'there' for her. All of this is new to me, just as it is with so many others, and as much as I would love the help of regular therapy I know that I have to help myself - but it is HARD. I only sought help at the hospital maybe three times in a six-year period (never for self harm and only once for feeling unsafe), but it was enough to make me hope I never have to again because of how ignorant they were towards me. But the pain is there all the same. You know what, I wouldn't have been able to write it 6 years ago. I was petrified of losing you; the intensity of my emotions, the world and the endless possibilities absolutely petrified me. A common call to the SANE Helpline often goes like this: 'I think my partner, daughter or son has borderline personality disorder (BPD) and I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around them. Thank you so much for writing this, I am putting it everywhere I can. But she arrived the next day with a police office to remove, most, but not all of her remaining stuff. Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a long-term pattern of "abnormal behavior" that is characterized by an unstable sense of self, emotions, and relationships with other people. This insidious illness is as we know is the relationship killer. For me as I gained more experience and I saw the positive changes DBT can lead to, this helped me to avoid that particular trap. I am a DBT therapist and work on an intensive DBT unit with adolescents. Someone needs groceries, even if I barely have enough money to feed myself? This open letter does an amazing job of outlining some of the hallmark symptoms of BPD. Many times I wanted to give up but he is crying out loud inside that I cannot afford to leave him like that. I am LOST! I quit writing. I was in denial until 27 years old. Remember that your words, love, and support go a long way in helping your loved one to heal, even if the results are not immediately evident. I have found some wonderful resources but they are all for the person affected by the BDP subhuman (heh). So hard sometimes. I have been diagnosed with other things except for this. Recovery happened through a commitment to DBT. Then she tells me she found an apartment and began moving every possible evidence that she ever lived here out of our home. If you are an adult in a relationship with another adult, either through blood or through a romantic liaison, who fits the . Groups are not for everyone. Thank you so much for your comment. I have friends with mental illnesses who are therapists, and I've even had a therapist who struggled with an eating disorder. . It's sad that I would have to use our son as an instrument to get my wife in front of a mental health professional, but it is the only way I can see him being protected from the long term effects of this mental illness. I couldnt talk to you then, and I cant really talk to you now. Punishment And Revenge. So thank you. I am a 39yr old female who recently got diagnosed with BPD. The mind is very complex. And for all those who DO deserve to be helped, be allowed to heal, and their loved ones who deserve to be supported, thank you for sharing this letter that might help them all live better together and individually. This is an open letter to anyone willing and/or needing to listen. Maybe its the first time you fell in love, or the worst argument you have ever had with someone you love. I'n sending a hug to you . But for what it's worth you're brave for writing this letter, and i hope for the people who are genuinely affected by this condition, they are heard supported and loved as they definitely don't need anymore shit. I also shared this letter with my husband so that maybe he will have a better understanding of what I go through. We may do very dramatic things, such as harming ourselves in some way (or threatening to do so), going to the hospital, or something similar. You don't have to be completely "healed" to pursue your dreams. 4301 Wilson Blvd., Suite 300 I scream out (or maybe I don't) and no one knows what the heck I'm talking about. I have done everything that I know to do for the past 28 years. My heart breaks each time. Distancing can also trigger all kinds of abandonment and trust issues for the "BPD" partner (as described in #4). This blog was extremely helpful for me, and sincerely appreciate it. Marsha Linehan, the founder of DBT, recently disclosed that she had BPD!!! Thanks again. I'm looking forward to reading more of your blog. Tonight tho as she is in the psych ward I feel as tho my world is crashing down around me. Its difficult, after all, to relate to others properly when you dont have a solid understanding of yourself and who you are, apart from everyone else around you. This extreme, black or white thinking and experience of totally opposite desires is known as a dialectic. It's a horribly helpless feeling to watch someone you love in pain. I am sorry you didn't have a happy childhood. I hope that my ex gets better. BPD is characterized by rapidly fluctuating moods, an unstable sense of self, impulsiveness, and a lot of fear. Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a significant mental health disorder that is so disruptive it was once thought untreatable. In the past when she gets to busy she ends up in the hospital. And to help others like you do! I had alter egos and they were the fun ones but I was not me anymore. We were always extremely close, until she got involved in a highly stressful abusive relationship. please know that at the very same time that we are pushing you away with our words or behavior. I also hope that you engage in self-care to take care of YOU during this stressful time. I loved this!!! Thank you for taking the time to share your story. And he isn't coming back and it hurts. I truly love her, but this is getting old real fast. I can only hope with every breath in my body that she can be 'cured' and live a normal and happy life. Thank you for the article. At times I've felt as if, emotionally, I were being held hostage. wow. Appointments 866.588.2264. No one is perfect and no one has life figured out, we are all troubled in some way. That can make you act erratically. Thank you. I put my family through hell for years. It was so helpful to me. Harder than bringing up 4 kids and being away from them for long periods. I would love if you linked to this post from your blog. She struggles with accepting herself and most of all loving herself which in turn hinders her from being healthy both mentally and physically. I am 26 years old, I live in Wichita, KS, and I live with my father because I cannot live alone. Just try.Won't work. You know what it's like, in a way that no therapist does, to live with BPD day in and day out. UPDATE: A video version of this letter, com, plete with narration and text, is now available for viewing and sharing by clicking, https://www.my-borderline-personality-disorder.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/healing-from-bpd-e1577900769964.jpg, An Open Letter From Those of Us With Borderline Personality Disorder. We need help with how he can support me and she is willing to speak to us about what its like for families of BPD. The right kind of help. I tried to help her by pleading not to go back to the guy after he choked her (!!!) Linda, thank you for taking the time to share these thoughts, as they will no doubt help others who read this post and scroll down to see your comment. I was excited because all of my problems finally had an explanation, and just maybe I wasnt such a bad person. Debbie, Hi Beauty thank you very much for your kind feedback. They said that it was more important to show me how much they love me than to go on long vacations alone. He doesn't even understand why he is holding back from me. I open my doors. He said many times that he wanted to show me love and treat me right but he thinks that his selfishness and pride are preventing him to do so. As I read it I want to share it with my husband and daughter for starters but would love to share it to my DBT therapist and group.How do you feel about that? However, looking back, all the signs were there, but I just didn't see them. Not what i wanted but almost lost all since of myself. I now am 49 and still have anger issues with myself but no selfharming. My mother has to pretty much do the same thing. Currently, my BPD symptoms are worsening. clearly point to BPD. Check this out. I want to get help, but I know we have no money. I loved your letter. You never know thoughit could end up being really helpful to hear from others who are going through the very same things as you. One moment you might feel as though you love. This website is produced by members of the Sanctuary Support Group. Through Dialectical Behavior Therapy, we can learn how to regulate our emotions so that we do not become out of control. P.S. An Open Letter From those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder: Dear Friends, Family Members, Lovers, Ex-lovers, Coworkers, Children, and others of those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder, You may be frustrated, feeling helpless, and ready to give up. Debbie, Kelly, thank you so much for letting me know! The author of this letter has since RECOVERED from Borderline Personality Disorder and no longer meets the criteria for a BPD diagnosis. I suffered massive trauma throughout my life but particularly when i was 16 years old. before you all jump on me telling me i'm in denial don't want to get help etc i've done nothing but GET HELP for years. BUT I AM EXHAUSTED. After decades of living with Depression, Anxiety and ADD myself, I knew fully well that what you think is based on the sum of your learning experiences, what you feel is the collection of emotions brought to the surface by what you think.Those are instinctive, knee-jerk reactions which cannot be helped.How you respond to those thoughts and feelings can indeed be helped.Watching my wife deal with BPD, I have seen the improvements through medication, through DBT and even ECT, but I know that it can still be the 800 pound gorilla that comes barrel-assing out of her closet every now and then.And I have all too many of my own moments.Yet for close to forty years she has been my source of safety, of comfort, because I can see her strength, I can feel her love.And I can understand, which is the most important if not only thing I can do to help. It's seriously messed up. Thank you for the letter and I have seen a lot of younger people diagnosed early in life.I remember feeling this suicidal attempt when I was 15..but never went for any therapy..I just lived life and had my children and worked all the time too. She blew up, tore into me for a good 30 minutes before breaking up with meshe breaks up every time she gets mad, then acts as though it had never happened a few hours later, or the next day). I wish I knew more about BPD before my wife left..I miss herwish I could have done more. Explore the different options for supporting our mission. I love them so much but I am so lost. I am the 30 year old sister with BPD. Thank you fit writing this letter and for your blog. Boredom is often dangerous for us, as it can lead to the feelings of emptiness. Honestly, I don't think this letter is helpful, or should have been addressed to the children of BPD's for a few reasons. If I continue living how I am, I doubt I'll see the age my mother saw54. Hope can be returned. Love, Linda <3. Great job!!! Debbie you have said what we all struggle to say. Any suggestions? Leaving university during the recession, where there were no jobs in my chosen field, was a pretty anxious time. The content of this website is not a substitute for independent professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please be aware that this might heavily reduce the functionality and appearance of our site. It is possible that something that you said or did triggered us. Another thing you may have noticed is that spaced out look on our faces. I wish you all the best. SANE Helpline. I would have missed my little princess daughter, missed my husband, missed out on my "recovery". I have subjected myself to 2 abusive relationships, and have 2 children by both of my abusers. I held on to you so tightly then, and I still do now because, to me, you are the answer, you are the only person in the world. We all receive different care and information from professionals and those around us, information has never been so easily accessible. I miss you all and us so much. My hope is that you will gain new insight into your loved ones condition and grow in compassion and understand for both your loved one AND yourself, as this is not an easy road. Mahari, a Canadian woman and Life Coach now 52 years old, who recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder 14 years ago writes an open letter to all who have been, as she was at the age of 19, diagnosed with BPD. Not all of the situations I described apply to all people with Borderline Personality Disorder. This is called dissociation. The reason being, that it is common knowledge for those with mental illness to understand how damaging social stigma can be, but I believe it is just as damaging to read numerous success stories about people who have suffered themselves. They have the ability to support the BPD. People with BPD are also more inclined to exhibit impulsive behavior or . An Open Letter to "Non BPDs" from those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder: Dear Friends, Family Members, Lovers, Ex-lovers, Coworkers, Children, and others of those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder, You may be frustrated, feeling helpless, and ready to give up. I handle things differently thru all the therapy and med changesI still wish it to go away..since now have Bipolar tendencies and PTSD isn't this all pretty much the same stuff and the rollercoaster is ongoing? I am about to give birth to my first child and one of my baby's grandparents most likely has Borderline Personality Disorder (previously diagnosed with Paranoid Personality Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Depression, and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, but many of us believe BPD is a more comprehensive explanation and DBT type therapy/interactions are the only things that have consistently had a positive impact). I don't know what to do anymore. Personal trainer. Explore the different options for supporting NAMI's mission. I have reached out several times over the years and nothing except mean posts on facebook that make me cry for months. Your boss is *probably* trying to be supportive and encouraging in whatever way she knows how, but only YOU know what you need in terms of support at any given time. Debbie, Hello NB thank you so much for your kind, insightful comment. She has a 12 month lease but says she may come back sooner if go into rehab for her ( I am working on my issues with a therapist). My wife was diagnosed with BPD a number of years ago and it's been more of a battle for her than for me. I shouldn't have apologised, and this time I won't. Your email address will not be published. I tried telling them what I KNEW I needed treatment wise, but because it wasn't available to me, they kept telling me I just didn't WANT to get better and wouldn't take the help offered even though I actually did go through all the groups offered, which didn't help because of the other issues I struggled with which they just said was BPDit wasn't. This time tho I just dont know if I can walk in all the pain any longer. You might feel like you're being held hostage . I do love him and I am asking the Lord to help me help him. If you do not want that we track your visit to our site you can disable tracking in your browser here: We also use different external services like Google Webfonts, Google Maps, and external Video providers. My fiance has BPD. Thank you for taking the time to leave this kind comment, and more importantly, for the wonderful work you are doing to help hurting people. Please trust that, with professional help, and despite what you may have heard or come to believe, we CAN and DO get better. Also, I am very grateful FOR my boyfriend and your article. "People with BPD are like people with third degree burns over 90% of their bodies. Hi there, I am now in my 2nd month of treatment for BPD, and ,sadly, had all nine of the symptoms. He is desperate I know. I'm usually pretty good at keeping my head, and not fighting back, whenever she does this. That some people really are willing and even eager to help, and that makes me smile every damn time. Sometimes the best thing to do, if you can muster up the strength in all of your frustration and hurt, is to grab us, hug us, and tell us that you love us, care, and are not leaving. It's like you're a baby learning everything all over again. My family "tolerates" me. Unfortunately, a few years later, the societal stigma against mental illness reared its ugly head. Borderline personality disorder (BPD), also known as emotionally unstable personality disorder (EUPD), is a serious mental health condition that prevents someone from being able to control. I have ruined many relationships due to my inability to manage my symptoms. The one thing I would add is that people with BPD need to recognize that no matter the rationale for their actions, they do hurt people, and hurt people have a right to their feelings as much as people with BPD have a right to their own feelings. My mother has informed herself about bpd, so that she can give me the support I need in a way that I can accept it. This is my second year in DBT. This is called splitting, and its part of the disorder. If you have BPD, you may have had work experiences that upset you, the people who worked with you, or both. It's all chaos. Copyright 2023 NAMI. I mean, I know that makes me sound selfishand I am a lot more than I used to be. He seems to be in complete denial of my diagnosis. Thank you for expressing so eloquently and non-judgmentally what (I bet) so many with BPD wish they could say to friends and loved ones. I've spent time in mental health institutions, in therapy, I have made attempts on my own life and I'm 25 years old - I feel I have been through things that most people don't go through until they are much later on in life. My wife got me a book back in 2004 called Walking On Egg Shells that has helped me so very much. Thank you for writing this. , You are a brave and kind man. There is a lot of misconception out there about BPD. Main Subjects:Caring for Someone with BPD,Events,Getting Help,Living with BPD,Research,BPD in the Media, Other Subjects: Advocacy, BPD Awareness Week, Couples and Families, Family Connections Course,National BPD Conference, New Member, Sanctuary Meetings, Treatment, Validation, What is BPD. I have no nearby friends. Thank you, and best wishes for the future. The Perks of Being a Borderline Resilient, Got BPD? Dear people, I have a professional translation of the letter in Dutch. In the interest of our child, I have put him into therapy. I was diagnosed with BPD about seven years ago. An open letter to family and friends regarding the person they know with Borderline Personality Disorder, Manipulative, attention-seeking, dramatic, broken, crazy. Yes, YOU can imagine. I am sorry you had to grow up too soon. Erica shares her story of being diagnosed at 18 and opening up about living with BPD. The letter F. An envelope. I wish you peace. 1. My friend is having a sense of impending doom. It is possible that something that you said or did triggered us. Be somewhere. Wow is all I can say!!! Hope you are well! Open Letter. "Snap out of it". However, when they are presented in a manner as if the struggle somehow evaporates at the end is not logical, because life is never so linear. Not doing anything to make it happenjust wondering why it hasn't. I seem selfish. I am co-dependent, which I regard as simply the other side of the coin. , Hi Tea You're welcome, and thank you as always for the kind feedback. Note that blocking some types of cookies may impact your experience on our websites and the services we are able to offer. It was so overwhelming that is when they diagnosed me with severe depression and panic disorder after taking a long test and seeing several drs. ~ Dave M. Also, during those long recovery periods, she will fixate on a distorted, misremembered and misquoted version of something I'd said during the fight, always distorted to be much harsher than what I actually said, and sometimes completely "fabricated" with no basis in anything I said. She told me about the family events she's been dealing with lately and we talked a bit through some of those, as well as a source of panic she doesn't seem ready to talk about.. I'll buy them groceries. I love this person, but the situation can be so hurtful. You carried on with our children, with your job, with our house and you dragged it all with you like Wonder Woman. Maybe we should bandage our heads and hearts. Common triggers include rejection or abandonment in relationships or the resurfacing of a memory of a traumatic childhood event. The roots of abuse in BPD, particularly in intimate significant other relationships with Non-Borderlines have their genesis in the borderline's re-living of this deep intra-psychic pain. I am very excited for your ongoing healing! Harder than playing the guitar to 3000 people. Dear Friends, Family Members, Lovers, Ex-lovers, Coworkers, Children, and others of those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder. The sort of help I needed. She blames our divorce completely on me, taking no responsibility at all. You *can* overcome this disorder! Thank you very much for your perspective. For example, a male with BPD may engage in frequent binge drinking of. 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