dishonesty the truth about lies transcript

BILL MOYERS: [yoke-over] Boisjoly later testified what happened during that meeting. PAUL EKMAN: Thats such. Candace? That night the temperature was below freezing. Its a lie we need in order to live. Reality is fearsome, but as weve learned in this series, experience tells us more fearsome yet is evading it. Dr. DAN GOLEMAN: The fear is that if I speak the truth, a] everyone will hate me, I wont be loved anymore; and b] the familys going to dissolve and shatter our reality, our shared reality. Almost everyone else in the film does. "), each person had a unique justification for lying. It would be a lie, but it would be a lie for safety. In addition to speaking at the festival, he brought along the Truth Box. We were told by Morton Thiokol attorneys to answer all questions put to us, either yes or no, and volunteer nothing. Going far beyond They dont point the finger at the doctor whos the incompetent. Some NASA people are still reluctant to admit what happened. John Dean was a loyalist. BILL MOYERS: [voice-over] The belief had taken on a life of its own. It is meant to encourage meaningful and thoughtful discussions about our (dis)honest behavior. And they all got together once and discovered that that was a big lie. WebDishonesty The Truth About Lies Transcript Self-balanced and unrevealable Toddie extrapolating almost objectively, though Aguste marshallings hisfriendships neighbours. I ts not red or blueit is green.. As we become more self-aware, we learn to spot our lies before we repeat them or they spiral out of control. Thats not the truth. Thoreau tells the story of a traveler on horseback who comes to the edge of a marsh. I want you to know that it doesnt come easy to anybody, but I think we all had to weigh in the balance the difference between lives and lies. Harsh Truth #1: Toddlers Cant Lie A two-year-old might say they didnt eat It cost the entire nation a measure of confidence and prestige. I mean, why people lie for very often the same reasons, if you look at children, you look at adults, you look at politicians. Everybody lies a little. And Ill never forget his reaction to me. Deception covers everything from small white lies to the large lies of the "winning class" who have more wealth than the entire bottom 90 percent combined. A person who lies to someone is not considered to be a mental illness simply because he or she is a symptom of other mental health disorders. In some ways even more susceptible. I was never asked or polled, and it was clearly a management decision from that point. Not one. And the fact is that any action that would have led the American people, or the public mind, to perceive that we were about to go to war in Vietnam or that he was pulling the plug on Vietnam would have destroyed the Great Society. Hes only sending 50,000 over. And we punish those who point out reality while rewarding those who provide us with the comfort of illusion. Decisive moments in our recent past, unforgettable moments, reveal those pressures that drive people to deny the truth and distort reality. "Some lying is socially useful, but we do it too much in an undiscriminating way. Spirituality & Practice. Inspired by the work of social scientist, Dan Ariely, the film interweaves personal stories, expert opinions, behavioral experiments, and archival footage to reveal how and why people lie. A Satisfactory Solution To Your Complaint Ive often been struck by the fact that the parameters of our knowledge of Watergate really were my Senate Watergate testimony. The shared reality that we create in that public mind is as susceptible to self-deception as we are individually. One is as its about to unravel and theyre going to be found out anyway. Hawks believed he would escalate the war, doves thought he would limit it. ROGER BOISJOLY: Which was worth in excess of $1 billion. And to this day I dont know that we know everything that went on in that White House. I know our mangers felt the pressure. You promise you wont tell anybody I showed you? To undermine his critics, hold the great American middle, and shore up his own sagging morale, Lyndon Johnson fell deeper and deeper into wishful thinking. You want to be the one who can do it, who can make it real, who can make our belief be the truth. And to this number, of course, must be added the number captured. WebDishonesty: The Truth About Lies Term 1 / 14 What increases the "Fudge Factor" Click the card to flip Definition 1 / 14 Everybody's doing it Conflict of interest I'm not hurting anyone Do you say, I dont know.? The collective mind has its own blind spots. He knows that in our family, as in most families, you get into a lot of trouble at school youre supposed to tell your parents about it. I served Lyndon Johnson when he came to power. As to what deters lies, it turns out that the threat of punishment is an ineffective behavioral modifier. DAN GOLEMAN: Whats at work is one of the most primitive needs that we all have. And I went over and told him what had happened in Mitchells office. In 1963 John F. Kennedy had said the spearhead of aggression in Vietnam had been blunted. In the documentary, a man recounts a story about having comforted a terrified woman on a turbulent flight when he lied and told her that he was an aeronautics engineer. And I know how little I knew. DAN GOLEMAN: And there he was able to speak. There was one more chance to avoid disaster. It was by firing him and scaring him because this was the most frightened young man Ive ever met, who was now fired and away and so scared of what might happen to him, that the rest of his strategy was to protect himself. 4044 N Lincoln Ave Unit 319Chicago, IL 60618, Privacy Policy How can it What kind of projects can I and can't I do? BILL MOYERS: How do we do that? WebTranscript Enlarge this image In a $1.6 billion defamation suit, Dominion Voting Systems argues that Fox Corp. bosses Rupert Murdoch (left) and Lachlan Murdoch (right) were I dont want you to wake them. Would that be a lie? Its just like roaches. Even I. BILL MOYERS: Are you saying that the need to belong to the group is more important than being an individual of integrity? New York, NY 10012, https://www.ethicalsystems.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/DISHONESTY.jpg, https://ethicalsystems.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/ES-logo-final-white.gif. I was jetting around, trying to save the world, and where was my daughter? Nixons staunchest foot soldier was the man who conceived the Watergate break-in, Gordon Liddy. RICHARD NIXON: [1972 news conference] The FBI is conducting a full field investigation. Web(Dis)Honesty:The Truth About Lies By Stephen Holden May 21, 2015 There are little white lies that seemingly hurt no one and whoppers that wreak social and economic havoc. In this broadcast well look at how deception has influenced some of the major events of our recent past, and how self-deception shapes our personal lives and the public mind. WebA partnership between bestselling author and social scientist Dan Ariely and SALTY Features, THE (DIS)HONESTY PROJECT hopes to create a safe space where we can explore the complicated truth(s) of the matter, improving our own behavior and that of the world around us. With compelling personal and academic findings, this book will change the way we see ourselves, our actions, and others. ROGER BOISJOLY: : We immediately went to the engineering management at Morton Thiokol and spent that afternoon convincing engineering management not to launch under such adverse conditions. If my son, whos almost 17, were to get into a lot of trouble in school, and the principal were to call him in and said, You know, if you insult your teacher again youre out of school. And he comes home and over dinner, were chatting and he says nothing about it, hes lying to me. It is a part of a project he has in the works with the Academy-Award-winning production company, SALTY Features. You survey the first 15 students who arrive at a band class. Its going to be a lonely role. And the second is the moment at which an insider is about to become an outsider. LYNDON B. JOHNSON: The Great Society rests on abundance and liberty for all. Secretary of Defense McNamara, upon whose plan all of this was based, had recommended that, Mr. If youre not with us, youre against us. From the Oval Office he plotted how to destroy his enemies. CANDACE: Oh, because I would have gotten in serious trouble! White House aides Oliver North admitted that he lied to the Congress, to the press, to the public. Anybody who says they are a good liar obviously is not, because any legitimately savvy liar would always insist theyre honest about everything. It demands an end to poverty and racial injustice, to which we are totally committed in our time. The day before launch Morton Thiokol engineers learned that weather reports were calling for freezing temperatures overnight. One of the Alsop brothers called you a bottom-dwelling slug.. Explore the archive. ROGER BOISJOLY: Now everybody in the whole world knew exactly what happened to the space shuttle Challenger. Four spots on this side. And the mom comes out, and she says, John, why are you out in the street? And he says, Oh, those girls pushed me. And we said that we didnt. Posted by: Barnacle Bill the sailor at February 28, 2023 06:05 PM (vcOmj) And they see that whats going on, that living the lie is defeating the purpose of the company, the government, whatever it may be. And it gets dangerous when many different other aspects of the information process need to be distorted to support that lie. It has, replies the youngster, but youve not got halfway to it. Beneath the distortion and deception of life in America today there is hard reality. Because what hes who hes lying to are people who are given the responsibility to form that political judgment, the Congress. And is better spent a The documentary feature film will be titled (Dis)Honesty The Truth About Lies. Along with the Truth Box and the film, there will be a website to carry on the conversation of the project. And then the war in Vietnam. Where can we work? Im Bill Moyers. BILL MOYERS: Didnt the White House including the President inspire a lot of unflattering stories about you? WebThis and other illuminating quotes about that fundamental human trait the ability to be dishonest welcome you at the website connected to the upcoming film (Dis)honesty The Truth About Lies, directed by Yael Melamede. It was a lie that I learned to tell myself so well, and so deeply imbedded, from babyhood. You will have endless dinner party conversation material as well good strong scolding for your own personal behavior., (Dis)Honesty is lively, witty and captivating, For press inquiries, please contact info@saltyfeatures.com. Youre not even aware that youre lying. BILL MOYERS: [voice-over] Dr. Dan Goleman is a psychologist and the author of Vital Lies, Simple Truths. Salty Features. BILL MOYERS: [voice-over] Robert Boisjoly was an engineer at Morton Thiokol, the company that makes the solid rocket boosters for the space shuttle. For more information on the project please follow the above links, and watch this short video: Ethical Systems CANDACE: I have four boys that live down the street. A lie that is half-truth is the darkest of all lies. BILL MOYERS: [voice-over] NASA denied that cold weather caused the disaster until Nobel Prize-winning Physicist Richard Feynman performed a simple experiment. But finally, it seems, Rupert Murdoch himself wasn't willing to lie when he was deposed under oath in the $1.6 billion Dominion lawsuit that puts his entire company at risk. A magician, by his costume and manner, notifies you theyre going to trick you. ROGER BOISJOLY: I cant characterize it as an accident at all. Very simple. My God, hed been an intimate member for 15 years, but he never mentioned it until he was leaving the presidency. A person who lies to someone is not considered to be a mental illness simply because he or she is a symptom of other mental health disorders. He would had stayed behind Nixon all the way, and we would never have really found the true story. DAN GOLEMAN: Meanwhile, NASA is trying to convince Congress that it can do about 25 missions a year, its under real pressure to establish itself as being able to meet its dates for launch. WebBut finally, it seems, Rupert Murdoch himself wasn't willing to lie when he was deposed under oath in the $1.6 billion Dominion lawsuit that puts his entire company at risk. And you see, along with that goes the fear that if we speak the truth the family will be destroyed, it will shatter the group. NYU Stern School of Business The first time you lie about what happened on a fishing trip someone asks, Hey, did you catch any fish? You think about whether youre going to tell a good story and look or whether youre going to admit, be embarrassed, and, you know, you got skunked. In some ways its very helpful and in many ways its destructive. Lift off of the 25th Space Shuttle Mission. You just have to protect them. MAN: When I feel that the person is deliberately lying, it hurts. Determine whether the sample is biased or unbiased. Something on the order of 2,100. And there are so many Issues densely packed. This transcript was entered on May 15, 2015. japanese mythology quiz; spanish slang for girl And the hope that I have today that I didnt have at the beginning of recovery, the hope showed me that I could feel joy and not just sadness. PAUL EKMAN: Richard Nixon failed to recognize that we have a distinction between what is permissible in dealing with an international adversary and with dealing with a domestic rival. Posted by: Barnacle Bill the sailor at February 28, 2023 06:05 PM (vcOmj) Wed like people to be truthful. An actor is notifying you, an impostor is not. President, if you do this, if you Americanize the war, my recommendation is to go to the American public and let them know the seriousness of this. Johnson, being concerned with the politics of the decision, rejected that advice. NASA VOICE: Get roll program confirmed. DAN GOLEMAN: As in any group with an ideology, the people who told the truth, which undermined that ideology and here the ideology was that NASA could keep its missions going and the companies that it could continue to supply quality products for that those who undermined the ideology had broken the contract. WebHow to watch online, stream, rent or buy (Dis)Honesty: The Truth About Lies in Australia + release dates, reviews and trailers. And they started with this whole thing over this Dean Report that I was absolutely unwilling to do that. But finally, it seems, Rupert Murdoch himself wasn't willing to lie when he was deposed under oath in the $1.6 billion Dominion lawsuit that puts his entire company at risk. NEWSCASTER: Pilot Mike Smith, followed by Christa McAuliffe, teacher in space. He fooled everyone for a while, because he had fooled himself. WOMAN: And that for me was the original lie, how I learned to give part of myself away to keep my father comfortable. Alfred Tennyson . Commonplace acts of make clear cheating isn't just happening on a newsworthy scale, but in smaller, more mundane ways everywhere. MAN: [voice-over] The truth about lies is that each of us carries within us something we dare not say that needs to be spoken. Their roots run to childhood. By the time Challenger lifted off at 11:30 the next morning it was still only 36 degrees. WebCNBC recently aired a fantastic new documentary called (Dis)Honesty The Truth About Lies. I wouldnt do that today. And he responded that he was appalled by Thiokots recommendation. WOMAN: It as a lie that I believed about myself to myself inside myself. You know, you can spray, but, god damn it the roaches will still come out unless you keep spraying. Beyond our personal experiences, a cursory glance at public scandals ranging from Enron to Bernie Madoffto the recent "Deflategate" shows the prevalence of lies in our culture. DAN GOLEMAN: Any time you have a shared lie, a vital lie, in a group it survives because everyone is playing the game. Theres nothing in its original specifications that has come anywhere near reality and performance. It involves the telling of lies, the withholding of information, and the twisting of the truth in order to gain an advantage and deceive others. WOMAN: The pain helped me grow. (Dis)Honesty The Truth About Lies From seemingly small white lies to full-blown criminal confabulations, lying permeates human behavior. PAUL EKMAN: If you yourself had deceived yourself which is, of course, the very worst price to ever pay you yourself no longer have the information, and you dont even know that youre engaging in deception. WebDishonesty Responsibility: Bond/360, CNBC and The (Dis)honesty Project present a CNBC, Fourth & Twenty8 Films and Salty Features production ; a film by Yael Melamede ; written by Chad Beck, Yael Melamede ; produced by Dan Ariely, Deborah Camiel, Yael Melamede, Mitch Weitzner ; directed by Yael Melamede. OLIVER NORTH, former National Security Council Aide: [Iran-Contra investigation] I want you to know that lying does not come easy to me. Now, on the other side of the card theres three spots. Its the type of lie, its how long the lie endures, how large the fabric that has to be created to support it. Its the conflict between a loyalty to higher authority and a loyalty to your peers. And its true in corruption in government, its true in lying by government, its true in betrayal of trust. Now, the significance is not only a money significance, but the fact that they were the sole source, they were the only company without competition that were making those motors. Huck lies about having family on the wreck in clear danger. An insightful and entertaining documentary about the epidemic of lying and cheating afoot in the United States. [interviewing] What did you think when you first heard about the Watergate break-in? But once youve engaged in that lie the next time you wont consider it at all. And to not accommodate a major customer like NASA may have put that type of situation in jeopardy. Who can we take money from? And particularly with reference to the President of the United States . Even though those two facts were known, in all those meetings they were never spoken aloud. 28. Hes not mobilizing the reserves, hes not sending the 150-200,000 troops to Vietnam. Fox News owner Rupert Murdoch admitted he knew his organization was spreading lies about the 2020 election results in a deposition for a lawsuit filed by Dominion Voting Systems made public Monday. You know, the National Security. Once the plan was put into effect, the force invaded Cuba, they were routed, they were imprisoned, and it was an utter humiliation, embarrassment and fiasco for the Kennedy Administration. Prove n=11n\sum_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{1}{n}n=1n1 diverges by comparing with the series n=2an\sum_{n=2}^{\infty} a_{n}n=2an where (an)\left(a_{n}\right)(an) is the sequence (12,14,14,18,18,18,18,116,116,116,116,116,116,116,116,132,132,)\left(\frac{1}{2}, \frac{1}{4}, \frac{1}{4}, \frac{1}{8}, \frac{1}{8}, \frac{1}{8}, \frac{1}{8}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{16}, \frac{1}{32}, \frac{1}{32}, \dots\right)(21,41,41,81,81,81,81,161,161,161,161,161,161,161,161,321,321,). Sailor at February 28, 2023 06:05 PM ( vcOmj ) Wed like people to truthful. Who arrive at a band class be truthful shuttle Challenger costume and manner, notifies you theyre going trick... 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